Whip Queen has been married way too long and has uncovered the secrets of keeping combat away from home. Can't get what you want from the relationship? Ask her and she'll tell you how to manipulate even the most headstrong. She's got the three S's down: sassy, savvy and sexy. This Mediterranean Goddess knows how to use the strap and keep them begging for it.
Whip Queen
Mating Techniques of the Single City Girl
By Whip Queen
So this is the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I asked my 'always with a beau' girlfriend how she reels them in, when most of the women that I know feel that finding a partner is harder then fishing for Salmon in BC waters. Her answer… well I’ll let you come to your own conclusion.
She spilled the beans while we were sitting on her "favorite" bench.
"Its simple", she confided to me. "You follow a routine".
Hers is to have lunch everyday at the same time, on the same bench. Her theory is that if you do attract someone’s attention, they later know where to find you. Plus, you meet other "benchers" or joggers or walkers who after a few smiles and friendly waves, the doors are open for making new friends and hopefully meeting your next Mr. Right.
So, right there, on her carefully selected bench, she sits, day in, day out, eating her lunch (obviously not tuna) and sipping on her juice box (how sexy).
It works for her. It’s great, it’s wonderful. How about trying all those great little restaurants on the strip where she works? Not even a coffee with Betty from sales. A drink at the bar with a girlfriend? Nope, she does it all alone, it works best, she says. She does it all the time.
Would I (if I was single) or most of my friends do it? Like giving up Sex In The City, not a chance in a million!! Isn’t there more to life than meeting a man, I asked her?
When she looked at me all befuddled, it all started making sense. See, always-with-a-beau, had just that.
Having a good companion in your life is great (for the most part). Beats going solo to parties, sleeping alone in a tent, and gives you a reason to wear all your purchases from Fredrick’s of Hollywood.
But didn’t she realize that the real necessity in life was having one? Even when you get the man, who will you call to discuss all those personal, just between lovers, little details?
Who will you call to complain that he bought you a cheesy gold ring (even though he knows you prefer silver), or to cry on a shoulder when he’s being a jerk? And for crying out loud, didn’t she realize that dancing to I Will Survive is always more fun with a bunch of friends then solo?
I couldn’t help thinking of how much she was missing out on. Plus, they way it looked to me, being out and having a good time always yielded opportunities to meet new people.
I know there are men out there who have an easier time approaching a woman if she is alone, and that’s fine, because in life there will be many times (whether you want it or not) that you are alone. BUT, to reconstruct for whole life so your always alone in hopes of meeting a mate, well I don’t think it’s worth it.
Do you?
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